Wyt men . Reputations . Pedestals. Feet of clay.

 Well yes. I know some that love their families . And I have met some that are terrible people. I respect the ones that have a respect for themselves. That usually wasn’t a one off. Or accident. It was a family tradition. Intent over generations. Men outside our bc have been comfortable enough to maintain that a while. They have been trained since childhood and allowed to be male. In order to make a judgement you need to know people as individuals in their environments and outside them too. That takes a while. I get marriage proposals maybe every two or three years it’s flattering but normal for THEM. It’s common. Our culture is frankly , somewhat broken . Men who are in the dominant but failing culture  type admire things like character and strength in us often. Their women… are rarely tried like we are. And removed from reality often. Some of them are coddled or frustrated and can’t even describe their dissatisfaction. Some are trained since childhood to be duplicitous.And use men.  (Erica Kirk is an example) . Some are simple and straightforward an underworld of some are hardened or masculine or wild. Some smelled the coffee and work for what they have and the world has been their oyster since the civil rights day.  And some realize their  men have enslaved them historically too. You need to consider that before they came for us wyt men were hanging ww from trees flaying them alive torturing on the rack burning them at the stake. They did that to get their money bodies labor and political power. Periodt. And turned that into Haloween. We were trained & laughed at that. Truth is they are a more complicated group of people than we are. Can’t make broad brush assumptions too often concerning that.