The End of The World

Descentering men: the word it getting out   Facebook advise!    Sophia Young Here’s what I did: First and foremost , realize that your life is not supposed to revolve around them. Most of us were taught to measure our worth through men - whether a man likes us, chooses us, marries us, or stays with us. De-centering men means taking that power back. Here are a few practical ways: - Build a life that excites you without needing a man in it. Find hobbies, passions, travel, learning, fitness, art—whatever genuinely brings you joy. - Strengthen your relationships with other women. Women supporting women creates a powerful network that doesn’t depend on male validation. - Stop analyzing men’s behavior. Instead of asking “Why did he do that?” start asking “Does this behavior work for my life?” - Invest in your independence. Financial independence, emotional independence, and having your own interests changes the entire dynamic. - When you choose to start dating, date from a...

 Well yes. I know some that love their families . And I have met some that are terrible people. I respect the ones that have a respect for themselves. That usually wasn’t a one off. Or accident. It was a family tradition. Intent over generations. Men outside our bc have been comfortable enough to maintain that a while. They have been trained since childhood and allowed to be male. In order to make a judgement you need to know people as individuals in their environments and outside them too. That takes a while. I get marriage proposals maybe every two or three years it’s flattering but normal for THEM. It’s common. Our culture is frankly , somewhat broken . Men who are in the dominant but failing culture  type admire things like character and strength in us often. Their women… are rarely tried like we are. And removed from reality often. Some of them are coddled or frustrated and can’t even describe their dissatisfaction. Some are trained since childhood to be duplicitous.And u...

 I don’t h8 black men. Unfortunately bm have dipped their fingers in bw blood to often to pretend that everything’s a Ok . And #EveryFiveHours is not a myth . They have led mysogynoir campaigns , elevated other women and abused them too, more bm are with wm than bw are (?) and lead as g&y over black way too much to ignore. infected our ranks (thousands of bw dyed after they trusted bw running from a disease collapse in San Fransico alone evidently our Kangs revered orientation for a place to sleep?) depended on bws trust naivety and compassion to write a blank check  for the above. I am not a fool. And operate outside a monolithic mindset stance. On the other hand This post may have originated in a cointellpru think tank

 So much threat, roiling minute to minute ,  a chaos. I am learning as much as I can about the world each day a new shocking detail or new overwhelming outrage.  It has a rhythm to it in any case . The Gaza outrages echo the Slave Trade . It’s incessantly outrageous and disregarded as much as well. They are being hunted for sport and treated like the Africans they stole and abused for centuries. The accusers of my people have their deeds reflected back on them in the enslavement of their children. America is actually a big child bordello. Parents shunning the school photographer in panic , the schools albums are meat market catalogs it is screamed  in lurid print day to day. The rich NEVER pay for this. A great non accountability a fashionable mocking posture  of violation . Perversity. Almost means nothing .Many common males are turned predators of the vunerable for pay or luxury. As if they were stalking sparrows. I see it from afar an away.Poor innocent ...

 “Why women don’t believe in marriage any more”  marriage like the sabbath was made for man man was not made for the sabbath. When the sabbath is profaned then what is it then? Some of that to some of us It is no longer an idol. To be served , like throwing a virgin into a volcano . I guess you okay  if that happens ? On both counts you don’t have no connection or investment. If she die she die. U invested in the institution . And don’t give a flip about us consumed in it. No a gat dam given.

Good men are usually quiet because they are busy. Doing good. Bad men are quiet until they find a convienient victim. Then their evil lives on beyond them. And they fade back into the environment to prepare for more exploitations. or are stopped. usaully not though. Bad men have the upper hand in this system and are gaining ground . And will if not checked ruin the planet. Good men dont know them or know them and fear them. Women are not as organized have not been since we lost our matrifocal civilizations that we are never taught about in most schools. Instead we are taught this is the best we ever had . And that we were always slaves every where .